How to Prepare for a NSA Relationship

Have you imagined that what you need to do if you want to persuade one of your friends to become your FWB? For a majority of us in our 20s, this is one of the greatest relationships we can have. No matter you are not ready for a serious dating relationship or you want to pursue excitement meanwhile dating your frequent boyfriend or girlfriend, this NSA relationship can be in your pocket. For the former one, this FWB relationship can meet some of your desires, especially your sexual desires. And for the latter one, you can avoid being attached to your partner or burying yourself in a relationship and then losing yourself. In a nutshell, the benefits you can gain from this relationship are beyond your imagination.

Though this relationship is a causal relationship by definition, you are supposed not to treat it casually. Otherwise, it will backfire. If you don’t obey these rules regarding a NSA relationship, it is possible that you cannot benefit from this relationship. Worst of all, this relationship may do harm to you. Thus, to maximize the benefits and minimize the harm, you had better employ these following methods.

1. Make sure that both of you have the same expectations

Above all, this is one of the principal rules in a positive NSA relationship. Actually, it is all-important among all types of relationships, including FWB relationships. If a relationship is compared to a race, then the two sides are just like two runner tied together. If both of them can push towards at the same direction, then they can arrive at the destination quickly. Otherwise, they will stay at the original place. That is to say, only when two participators are found in the same page, this relationship can work well. Therefore, at the very beginning of a tinder free relationship, you are supposed to totally understand your requirements and goals. Stop asking your friend if you can meet their friends or families. Only sex, only sex and only sex, you need to keep in mind. Don’t use these silly questions to scare them away.

2. Make an agreement

There are no strict regulations about a NSA relationship. No one tells you what a FWB relationship is exactly like and no one judges if you are right or wrong because every relationship is different from each other. You, as the controller of this relationship, have the right to modify your rules. And this is an inevitable step you need to take. Just as a counter, it will be in chaos if there are no rules. Thus, in order to keep your FWB relationship keep running, you had better discuss with your friends about Dos and Don’ts. Only in this way can you be clear about where you should go and where the minefield is. Anyway, this is the indispensable step to a positive relationship.

Both making sure you are on the same page and making an agreement are useful ways to guarantee that this relationship will run in the right direction. If you want a positive relationship, none of these steps should be missed by you.